GRACE: The Triple Goddess, + One


I have been a firm believer in the Triple Goddess in each woman and in every woman, embracing the roles of Maiden, Mother, and Crone as they have presented themselves in my life; searching for them within when their specific insights were needed.

But as I age, and realize that women are living longer and healthier lives, I realize there is a void that must be filled by a new entity... she that is no longer quite so responsible as Mother, but who isn't quite yet secure in the role of Crone. Others, of course, have sensed this void, and have chosen their own idea of the needed addition to the Triple Goddess. I, however, am flying free, using only my own thoughts at present. I call this evolving goddess within myself "Grace": Grace because this new span of time for me, and other women, is there by the grace of God; and Grace because I need to learn to accept and share this gift of time and opportunity with grace... gracefully, gratefully, and graciously.

And because Grace is evolving, I will continue to honor the Triple Goddess, but always include Grace as "+ One". Women have always felt "the more the merrier", opening their arms, their homes, and their hearts to others. This blog is dedicated to Creating! Grace within myself and Creating! Graces in others. So, welcome, Grace, as we begin this exploration into your becomings!

Monday, November 21, 2011

Past Thanksgiving Revisited

I wrote the following essay close to forty years ago... I'm trying (hard) to recapture the innocence of the way I felt when I was writing it, and I'm hoping that I do: I want the reason I feel differently now to be because I've changed and not because the world is different... That way there is the chance that I can continue to change and find again some of the idealism I felt then. Maybe by Thanksgiving 2012, I will have lost my jadedness and be willing to see the pure grace in the simple things mentioned here. I'm going to work towards that goal, anyway! 

            When there is a fire burning slowly in the fireplace and the kitchen smells have sifted throughout the house, I give thanks for the simple things: a baby’s bright smile, a chrysanthemum in full bloom, or just the rustle of leaves blowing in the November gusts.
            When there is a crackle of excitement because company is coming soon, I give thanks for the home that is always warm on the inside when it is cold on the outside. This is the warmth of people: the warmth of laughter and good times, the warmth of optimism and peace, and the warmth of love.
            As I sit drinking a cup of hot spiced cider, I praise the Lord for my family: a family in which togetherness is important, good times are shared by all, and Christ is the head of the household. Ours is a family where individualism is accepted and goals are achieved through the help of all the members.
            As we join hands for grace, we give thanks for the good food, good friends, and good health. We offer a prayer of thanks for the feeling of comfort and belonging that we share, and we hope that our family will continue to serve not only food on Thanksgiving Day, but also warmth and joy.
            We give thanks for our country, a country with the four essential freedoms: freedom of religion, freedom of speech, freedom from want, and freedom from fear. America is a country of hard workers and talented artists, of high mountains and grand canyons, of old philosophers and excited children. The United States is a happy country – for this we are thankful.
            As the day lingers to an end, I am thankful for the enthusiasm of each person as we enjoyed this time together, and I am optimistic that our joy will remain with us. I offer a prayer for more days like this: more days filled with only pleasure. And as I pray, I feel that the Lord, too, is pleased with this Thanksgiving Day.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Michael Moore: Here Comes Trouble


I’ve been a fan of Michael Moore for a long time. I’ve waited impatiently for his documentaries to finally make it to theaters in Alabama after their release, then dragged family members or friends to see the shows when they finally hit the local cinema. These people were always glad I had afterwards, but getting them there was sometimes a chore. Why go see a documentary when you can see a real movie? My daughter gifted me a set of his films several years ago, so I’ve had the chance to share some of his older ones with people at work and with those I volunteer with in social justice endeavors. So, yes, I admire his creative talents and his passion for exposing the truth in his filmmaking. His works have helped change the notion of documentaries and documentarians, and he has stirred up trouble for any and all rascals on the wrong side of his pointed and poignant targeted issues. Needless to say, his politics and mine mesh well, and I appreciate him keeping our stance in the forefront of social and political commentary.

I like him even more, I think, in his current role of recording secretary, unabashed cheerleader, and faithful supporter of the Occupy Wall Street movement in New York and its expanding cities. He’s everywhere right now! Regular guest appearances on several news programs, continuous tweets, and his own blog reports keep me and many others abreast of all that’s happening as he visits and participates in the demonstrations in whatever city he happens to be. He started his own ruckus against Wall Street a couple of years ago with the release of his film “Capitalism: A Love Story”, so I’m sure he is wallowing in the fact that others now get the point he was trying to make… not just getting it, but actually lending their voices and their bodies to draw attention to the issue of the wealthy and money-powerful having it all. I applaud those who are willing to keep their voices in the fray, and I applaud Michael Moore for keeping attention riveted to their words and emotions on display.

And all of this beginning and going on in the midst of a new book launch and tour! Although his appearances on television because of Occupy Wall Street might aid the advertisement and sell of his new book, his already-scheduled appearances to promote the book surely solidified and supported his efforts for Occupy Wall Street. The book, “Here Comes Trouble: Stories from my Life”, certainly solidifies my belief that there is no better spokesperson than Michael Moore for any issue for which he has the passion to defend. The book is simply a compilation of life stories that illustrate the becoming of  this man and some of the thought processing that contributed to that growth.

Even before the chapters began, I was empathizing with the writer: His dedication to his mother for teaching him to read at four and for wanting to commit his stories to paper “while paper (and bookstores and libraries) still existed” hit home as the same discussion that my generation has entertained for the last few years. And then, early into the book, I realized that this would be a journey through my own childhood in a way, just seen through the stories of someone else… and what stories are told in these pages! I’ve always countered Maya Angelou’s acknowledgement that “There is no greater agony than to bear an untold story” with my own lament of, “No, it’s even worse to have no stories to tell”. Once again, while reading “Here Comes Trouble”, I feel keenly the unwritten pages of my own life’s storybook, and am humbled by the courage and conviction shown in many of the stories… and really jealous of what, in some circumstances, can be deemed simply as sheer luck experienced by the author!

Born in the same year, into much the same lifestyle, Michael Moore’s life and mine followed many of the same paths. Although we felt much the same on many of the issues discussed, I think he was sooner to see what was going on… I felt the same fears, senses of injustice, and intense passions falling on both the pro and con sides of what was happening in our lives… I just wasn’t as quick to grasp the stark reality of a lot of it. Whereas he was quick to throw caution to the wind and act on his beliefs, I was way too guilty of being swayed by caution. And the people he’s met and gotten to know, working with and joining in communion through thought and spirit… it could make anyone envious!

I highly recommend this book for everyone to read, especially if you’re turning fifty-seven this year, like I am tomorrow. What happened to Michael Moore in the Flint, Michigan area, happened to me in Huntsville, Alabama, and later on in the Ft. Worth-Dallas area of Texas. I’m sure the same things were happening all over the country. But this read is more than a walk down memory lane, it’s a revisiting of what made him, and me, and many of our generation who we are. It’s sometimes humbling, sometimes embarrassing, sometimes down-right sad. But it is us, and this years-long snapshot shows a true picture of the good, the bad, and yes, the very ugly, that formed us as individuals and as a society.

I’ve enjoyed my “Michael Moore immersion experience” for the last month, or so. After reading his stories (and listening to them, too); constantly seeing his face on television; and traveling with him via tweets and twitters, I not only like him more, I also respect him. He is a man deeply convicted by his faith, accepting the directive of the real Jesus that tells us to look into the eyes of those in poverty, pain, and the shackles of injustice, and in return, to welcome these same people into our hearts. He doesn’t stop there, though: He tries to do something about the conditions in which he finds these people. He isn’t just a rebel for rebellion’s sake: He loves the United States and wants it to be the ideal that we espouse it to be. He thinks paying taxes is patriotic. He also uses his celebrity to open doors for his creative work and for the good of his chosen missions. He celebrates diversity of race, religion, gender, and experiences and condemns the inequity and inequality of racism, of under-education, and in the disparity of classism. He feels, as I do, that when we say “Let all God’s children say ‘Amen!’, we mean all God’s children, indeed. I really like Michael Moore.

Just a note…

Michael Moore has been successful in teaching his messages of the rights of hard-working Americans, gun control, political sins, insurance company and medical injustices, and the harm of corporate and political greed. We have seen him in New York, Oakland, Washington, D.C., and Portland in the last few weeks supporting the Occupy Wall Street movement. He courageously speaks his mind and makes his point in a world of fast-talking, business-minded, political-contesting, and media-bombarded society that garners him fans, of course, but enemies as well. I hope he brings his passion and grit, along with his book tour, further South before too long: It might do him good to get a slight change in pace, even if it might feel like a snail-crawl pace that is taking him too fast back in time. I’ve already extended him an invitation for his “Home Book Tour” to stop here in North Alabama. I hope he comes. He might bring trouble with him, as it seems he often does, but his visit would be like a deep breath of clean air or a long, cool drink of clear water for me… and as we enter into the cold winter months and even colder political new year, I can’t imagine anything better than a clear head, cleansed palette, and the for-sure inspiration a visit from Michael Moore would bring. 

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

NaNoWriMo: National Novel Writing Month


            It’s November, so that means that once again we all get to set the goal to write a novel … or at least 50,000 words… this month. Who else is up for the challenge?

            The project is sponsored by the Office of Letters and Light: Besides NaNoWriMo, OLL also sponsors Script Frenzy, the Young Writer’s Project, and Camp NaNoWriMo. You can find out more about each of these at the websites listed below. I personally have been a part of NaNoWriMo several times, winning once; Script Frenzy once, when I won; and I registered for Camp NaNoWriMo both sessions this past summer, but had to “go home early” both times without winning. And although I haven’t won the challenges more than I have won, each time I participated I actually put some words on paper during the allotted time… so, I think I was successful each time I tried!

            The whole idea behind these programs is to get people to write. As a lover of books and a former reading teacher, I think it’s a great idea! And not only does the NaNoWriMo staff challenge you to write, but they cajole you and caress you and captivate you with light humor and bright ideas that make you want to write: In other words, they make the process fun!

            Community is a big concept in these programs. Not only is every participant welcomed into the NaNoWriMo family, there’s also the chance to buddy up with someone you know, or someone you meet through this new family of writers. There are Municipal Liaisons for nearly every region in the world it seems. These folks provide geographically-close support by offering gatherings and communal writing sessions. Local libraries and bookstores participate by opening their doors for writing sessions throughout the month.

            I’m a part of USA: Alabama: North region. Although I’ve gotten emails from the MLs in years past, this is the first year I will be participating in any of their planned activities. I’ve already attended the pre-kickoff lunch a couple of weeks ago, where I met a few people, ate good Mexican food, and received a bag of goodies from the MLs that was chocked full of thought starters, fun playthings, and creative sparks. Thanks, Amy and Bryan: I look forward to getting to know both of you during the course of this month’s writing. I know these volunteer positions take great energy and attention… just know your efforts are appreciated!

            The programs offered by the Office of Letters and Light are supported by individual contributions. I am personally going to try fundraising for the effort… when one does not have any money herself, but believes in an idea and wants to support that idea, then one must do what she has to do. I’ll post my fundraising address soon: Please visit! And if you have a little bit to offer, please do: I don’t profit from these funds, just the programs listed above.

            So, it’s now officially Day 1 of NaNoWriMo! There’s plenty of time for anyone to go to the website and sign up to participate. I’d love to be your buddy, especially if that might help you try harder to meet your goal: I’m sure it would help me stay on course, too. I personally am going to continue work on the Chick Lit story I barely started during one of the camp sessions this summer. Who knows? Maybe I’ll have a novel-length manuscript by the end of November… but if not, I will at least be further along than I would have been if I didn’t try. C’mon! Be a part of the writing and see just how many words you have by the final word count at the end of the month!